KINGDOM MARRIAGE PART 3: THE FOUR BASIC NEEDS OF A WIFE
Malachi 2:15-16 KJV
And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let non deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.  For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hatter putting away: for one coveter violence with his garment, saith the Lord of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
WAYS TO COMMUNCIATE SECURITY:
Priority & Preference
Admiration & Affirmation
Faithfulness & Transparency
Care & Provision
1 Timothy 5:8 KJV
 But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
Proverbs 5:15,18 KJV
 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well. Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Ephesians 5:25,29 KJV
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;  For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord of the church.
NOTE: Love is a language.
5 LOVE LANGUAGES:
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
NOTE: Love is the first-fruit of the Spirit. When love is communicated it will bring joy and peace. See Romans 11:16.
Galatians 5:22 KJV
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love,
1 Corinthians 14:7-9 KJV
And even things without life giving sound, whether pipe or harp, except they give a distinction in the sounds, how shall it be known what is piped or harped?  For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle?  So likewise ye, except ye utter by the tongue words easy to be understood, how shall it be known what is spoken? For ye shall speak into the air.
1 Corinthians 13:5 Amplified Bible (AMP)
It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured.
NOTE: Couples must learn to speak one-another’s love language.
Ephesians 5:23 KJV
 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church:and he is the saviour of the body.