SUNDAY September 27th, 2015

 

KINGDOM MARRIAGE PART 3: THE FOUR BASIC NEEDS OF A WIFE

1-SECURITY
 
Malachi 2:15-16 KJV
 
[15]And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let non deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. [16] For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hatter putting away: for one coveter violence with his garment, saith the Lord of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
 
WAYS TO COMMUNCIATE SECURITY:
Priority & Preference
Admiration & Affirmation
Faithfulness & Transparency
Care & Provision
 
1 Timothy 5:8 KJV
 
[8] But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
 
2- AFFECTION
 
Proverbs 5:15,18 KJV
[15] Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.[18] Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
 
Ephesians 5:25,29 KJV
[25]Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; [29] For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord of the church.
 
3- COMMUNICATION
NOTE: Love is a language.
 
5 LOVE LANGUAGES:
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Gifts
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
 
NOTE: Love is the first-fruit of the Spirit. When love is communicated it will bring joy and peace. See Romans 11:16.
 
Galatians 5:22 KJV
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love,
 
1 Corinthians 14:7-9 KJV
[7]And even things without life giving sound, whether pipe or harp, except they give a distinction in the sounds, how shall it be known what is piped or harped? [8] For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle? [9] So likewise ye, except ye utter by the tongue words easy to be understood, how shall it be known what is spoken? For ye shall speak into the air.
 
1 Corinthians 13:5 Amplified Bible (AMP)
[5]It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured.
 
NOTE: Couples must learn to speak one-another’s love language.
4- LEADERSHIP
 
Ephesians 5:23 KJV
[23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church:and he is the saviour of the body.
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