WEDNESDAY October 7th, 2015


1 Corinthians 1:7-10 KJV
[7] So that ye come behind in no gift; waiting for the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ: [8] Who shall also confirm you unto the end, that ye may be blameless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. [9] God is faithful, by whom ye were called unto the fellowship of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord. [10] Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.

– You can’t separate the spirit of grace from the Gifts of the Spirit…they are one in the same.
– A gift is not something you earn.

John 1:17 KJV
[17] For the law was given by Moses, but grace and truth came by Jesus Christ.

1] The gifts and grace of God are only available through One —Jesus.

– Grace is when you receive something that you did not deserve.
– Mercy is when you don’t receive something you did deserve.

Romans 6:23 KJV
[23] For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Romans 5:17 KJV
[17] For if by one man’s offence death reigned by one; much more they which receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness shall reign in life by one, Jesus Christ.)

NOTE: Jesus Christ is the avenue that we receive God’s Grace.

Galatians 2:20-21 KJV
[20] I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. [21] I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.

The word frustrate mean neutralize.

2] The gifts and grace of God can only operate in a one kind of person —one who is humble and poor in spirit.

James 4:6 KJV
[6] But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.

1 Peter 5:5 KJV
[5] Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.

NOTE: Don’t put a ceiling on your life by walking in pride.

1 Peter 5:6-8 KJV
[6] Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: [7] Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. [8] Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:

NOTE: The gifts and calling of God are without repentance

3] The gifts and grace of God are received by faith.

Ephesians 2:1-10 KJV
[1] And you hath he quickened , who were dead in trespasses and sins; [2] Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience: [3] Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others. [4] But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, [5] Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;) [6] And hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus: [7] That in the ages to come he might shew the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus. [8] For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast. [10] For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.

NOTE: Relinquish yourself to be affective!!

4] The gifts and grace of God are carried out by the Holy Spirit.

Hebrews 10:29 KJV
[29] Of how much sorer punishment, suppose ye, shall he be thought worthy, who hath trodden under foot the Son of God, and hath counted the blood of the covenant, wherewith he was sanctified, an unholy thing, and hath done despite unto the Spirit of grace?

NOTE: Be a conduit of the grace of God!!


SUNDAY October 4th, 2015



Wife’s Needs: 1 Security, 2 Affection, 3 Communication, 4 Leadership

1 Peter 3:7
[1] Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
[2] While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
[3] Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
[4] But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
[5] For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
[6] Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord:whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
[7] Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered

1 Peter 3:1-5 AMP
[1] IN LIKE manner, you married women, be submissive to your own husbands subordinate yourselves as being secondary to and dependent on them, and adapt yourselves to them, so that even if any do not obey the Word of God, they may be won over not by discussion but by the godly lives of their wives, [2] When they observe the pure and modest way in which you conduct yourselves, together with your reverence for your husband; you are to feel for him all that reverence includes: to respect, defer to, revere him–to honor, esteem, appreciate, prize, and, in the human sense, to adore him, that is, to admire, praise, be devoted to, deeply love, and enjoy your husband. [3] Let not yours be the merely external adorning with elaborate interweaving and knotting of the hair, the wearing of jewelry, or changes of clothes; [4] But let it be the inward adorning and beauty of the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible and unfading charm of a gentle and peaceful spirit, which is not anxious or wrought up, but is very precious in the sight of God. [5] For it was thus that the pious women of old who hoped in God were accustomed to beautify themselves and were submissive to their husbands adapting themselves to them as themselves secondary and dependent upon them.



NOTE: Biblical honor is synonymous with respect and value.

Ephesians 5:22-24
[22] Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church:and he is the saviour of the body. [24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Submit – ‘to rest in’ the wife rests in her husband as he rests in God.

1 Corinthians 11:3
But I would have you know, that the head of every man [husband] is Christ; and the head of the woman [wife] is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

Proverbs 31:11, 28
[11] The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
[28] Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

– Words of Affirmation & Physical Touch are generally the Love Languages of men.
– Don’t dishonor your husband with your words.
– Be sensitive to the ‘tone’ you use with your husband.
– Conversation has as much to with how you say something than what was said.
– You can say the right thing the wrong way and it not be received.
– You can say the wrong thing the right way and it be received.


1 Corinthians 7:3-5
[3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
[4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband:and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
[5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

Incontinencey- without self control.

NOTE: Men are stimulated by sight. Be visual, physical and creative.

NOTE: Most studies show men think about it twice as much as women.

STUDY: [Ages 18-25, thoughts on physical intimacy in one day]
Men: 1-388, median 18.6, avg 34.2
Women: 1-140, median 9.9, avg 18.6

Proverbs 5:18-19 KJV
[18] Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. [19] Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.


– Fellowship, Friendship, Not a mom
– Don’t be the reason your husband wants to get out of the house.
– Ask yourself if you’re the reason he wants to get out of the house (from you or with you?)

Proverbs 21:9 [25:24]
It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.


1 Timothy 5:14
I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.

WEDNESDAY September 30th, 2015


1 Corinthians 12:1 KJV
[1] Now concerning spiritual gifts , brethren, I would not have you ignorant.

God has sent His Word so that we can know His ways and His thoughts.
Ignorance will bring you into bondage

My people have gone into captivity because they have no knowledge (Isaiah 5:13).
My people have been destroyed because they have no knowledge (Hosea 4:6).

The Word of God will make you free!

-There are many gifts, but the same Spirit.

1 Corinthians 12:4-6 KJV
[4] Now there are diversities of gifts, but the same Spirit. [5] And there are differences of administrations, but the same Lord. [6] And there are diversities of operations, but it is the same God which worketh all in all.

-Gifts profit the body of Christ

1 Corinthians 12:7 KJV
[7] But the manifestation of the Spirit is given to every man to profit withal.

-Gifts are given by God

1 Corinthians 12:11 KJV
[11] But all these worketh that one and the selfsame Spirit, dividing to every man severally as he will.

-Every member of the body of Christ need other members in the body.

1 Corinthians 12:14-17,26-27 KJV
[14] For the body is not one member, but many. [15] If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? [16] And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? [17] If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? [26] And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer with it; or one member be honoured, all the members rejoice with it. [27] Now ye are the body of Christ, and members in particular.

-We don’t benefit each other if we are all operating in the same gift…there are no insignificant gifts.

-The greatest in the kingdom is he who serves the least of these.

-There is no single gift that everybody operates in.

1 Corinthians 12:28-31 KJV
[28] And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, governments, diversities of tongues. [29] Are all apostles? are all prophets? are all teachers? are all workers of miracles? [30] Have all the gifts of healing? do all speak with tongues? do all interpret? [31] But covet earnestly the best gifts: and yet shew I unto you a more excellent way.

-Love is far more important than gifts.
-Love causes gifts to operate.
-My motive for ministry has to be out of love!

-God doesn’t need us to put our flesh on His Spirit…we need His Spirit on our flesh.
-He will not any man have His glory…no flesh will glory in His presence.

-You can be gifted and not be sensitive to the Spirit…and not advance the Kingdom with that gift as God intended.

Acts 2:1-8 KJV
[1] And when the day of Pentecost was fully come, they were all with one accord in one place. [2] And suddenly there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing mighty wind, and it filled all the house where they were sitting. [3] And there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of fire, and it sat upon each of them. [4] And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance. [5] And there were dwelling at Jerusalem Jews, devout men, out of every nation under heaven. [6] Now when this was noised abroad, the multitude came together, and were confounded, because that every man heard them speak in his own language. [7] And they were all amazed and marvelled, saying one to another, Behold, are not all these which speak Galilaeans? [8] And how hear we every man in our own tongue, wherein we were born?

Isaiah 28:11-12 KJV
[11] For with stammering lips and another tongue will he speak to this people. [12] To whom he said, This is the rest wherewith ye may cause the weary to rest; and this is the refreshing: yet they would not hear.

Acts 2:8-11 KJV
[8] And how hear we every man in our own tongue, wherein we were born? [9] Parthians, and Medes, and Elamites, and the dwellers in Mesopotamia, and in Judaea, and Cappadocia, in Pontus, and Asia, [10] Phrygia, and Pamphylia, in Egypt, and in the parts of Libya about Cyrene, and strangers of Rome, Jews and proselytes, [11] Cretes and Arabians, we do hear them speak in our tongues the wonderful works of God.

Acts 4:31 KJV
[31] And when they had prayed, the place was shaken where they were assembled together; and they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and they spake the word of God with boldness.

1 Corinthians 14:20-22 KJV
[20] Brethren, be not children in understanding: howbeit in malice be ye children, but in understanding be men. [21] In the law it is written, With men of other tongues and other lips will I speak unto this people; and yet for all that will they not hear me, saith the Lord. [22] Wherefore tongues are for a sign, not to them that believe, but to them that believe not: but prophesying serveth not for them that believe not, but for them which believe.

1 Corinthians 13:8-13 KJV
[8] Charity never faileth:but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. [9] For we know in part, and we prophesy in part. [10] But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away. [11] When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child:but when I became a man, I put away childish things. [12] For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known. [13] And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity

SUNDAY September 27th, 2015



Malachi 2:15-16 KJV
[15]And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let non deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. [16] For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hatter putting away: for one coveter violence with his garment, saith the Lord of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
Priority & Preference
Admiration & Affirmation
Faithfulness & Transparency
Care & Provision
1 Timothy 5:8 KJV
[8] But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
Proverbs 5:15,18 KJV
[15] Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.[18] Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Ephesians 5:25,29 KJV
[25]Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; [29] For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord of the church.
NOTE: Love is a language.
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
NOTE: Love is the first-fruit of the Spirit. When love is communicated it will bring joy and peace. See Romans 11:16.
Galatians 5:22 KJV
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love,
1 Corinthians 14:7-9 KJV
[7]And even things without life giving sound, whether pipe or harp, except they give a distinction in the sounds, how shall it be known what is piped or harped? [8] For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle? [9] So likewise ye, except ye utter by the tongue words easy to be understood, how shall it be known what is spoken? For ye shall speak into the air.
1 Corinthians 13:5 Amplified Bible (AMP)
[5]It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured.
NOTE: Couples must learn to speak one-another’s love language.
Ephesians 5:23 KJV
[23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church:and he is the saviour of the body.

WEDNESDAY September 23, 2015


Matthew 26:52,58 KJV
[52] Then said Jesus unto him, Put up again thy sword into his place: for all they that take the sword shall perish with the sword. [58] But Peter followed him afar off unto the high priest’s palace, and went in, and sat with the servants, to see the end.
NOTE: Peter begin to follow at a distance ionce he was told to put away his sword.
Zechariah 4:6 KJV
[6] Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the Lord unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the Lord of hosts.
Philippians 3:3 KJV
[3] For we are the circumcision, which worship God in the spirit, and rejoice in Christ Jesus, and have no confidence in the flesh.
Galatians 3:2 KJV
[2] This only would I learn of you, Received ye the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith?
Matthew 5:3 KJV
[3] Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.



Luke 11:13 KJV
[13] If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?
Galatians 3:1-5
[1] O foolish Galatians, who hath bewitched you, that ye should not obey the truth, before whose eyes Jesus Christ hath been evidently set forth, crucified among you?
[2] This only would I learn of you, Received ye the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith?
[3] Are ye so foolish? having begun in the Spirit, are ye now made perfect by the flesh?
[4] Have ye suffered so many things in vain? if it be yet in vain.
[5] He therefore that ministereth to you the Spirit, and worketh miracles among you, doeth he it by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith
Hebrews 2:1-4
[1] Therefore we ought to give the more earnest heed to the things which we have heard, lest at any time we should let them slip.
[2] For if the word spoken by angels was stedfast, and every transgression and disobedience received a just recompence of reward;
[3] How shall we escape, if we neglect so great salvation; which at the first began to be spoken by the Lord, and was confirmed unto us by them that heard him;
[4] God also bearing them witness, both with signs and wonders, and with divers miracles, and gifts of the Holy Ghost, according to his own will.
1 Corinthians 12:1
[1] Now concerning spiritual gifts, brethren, I would not have you ignorant.
Wisdom, Knowledge, Faith, Healing, Miracles, ***Prophecy, Discernment, Tongues, Interpretation, Apostle, ***Teacher, Helps, Administration
Encouragement, Giving, Mercy, ***Prophesying, ***Teacher, Service, Leadership
Evangelist, ***Prophet, Apostle, ***Pastor/Teacher
***[Prophesying and Pastor/Teaching are the only gifts mentioned in all three epistles.]



Matthew 6:33 KJV
[33] But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
1. God meets needs through relationships (people), but that doesn’t make them the source.
2. The greater the relationship, the higher the expectations. Unmet expectations leads to offense.
3. God ordained marriage to fill a void but your spouse is not the source (Genesis 2).
4. What plaques most marriages today is unmet expectations.
Matthew 13:24 KJV
[24] Another parable put he forth unto them, saying, The kingdom of heaven is likened unto a man which sowed good seed in his field:
1. Sow based on what you want to reap.
2. Reap based on what you have sown. Don’t sow based on what you have reaped.
2. Jesus is the Lord of the harvest. We are not called to control the harvest.
Matthew 7:1-2
Luke 6:33-38
1 Corinthians 6:9 KJV
[9] Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Leviticus 18:20-22,24,26-27,29-30 KJV
[20] Moreover thou shalt not lie carnally with thy neighbour’s wife, to defile thyself with her. [21] And thou shalt not let any of thy seed pass through the fire to Molech, neither shalt thou profane the name of thy God: I am the Lord . [22] Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. [24] Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things: for in all these the nations are defiled which I cast out before you: [26] Ye shall therefore keep my statutes and my judgments, and shall not commit any of these abominations; neither any of your own nation, nor any stranger that sojourneth among you: [27] (For all these abominations have the men of the land done, which were before you, and the land is defiled;) [29] For whosoever shall commit any of these abominations, even the souls that commit them shall be cut off from among their people. [30] Therefore shall ye keep mine ordinance, that ye commit not any one of these abominable customs, which were committed before you, and that ye defile not yourselves therein: I am the Lord your God.
1 Corinthians 7:2-3,5 KJV
[2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. [3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. [5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinencey.
2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers:for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
1. Acceptance: knowing you are loved and needed by others
2. Identity: knowing you are individually significant and special
3. Security: knowing you are well protected and provided for
4. Purpose: knowing you have a reason for living. In the case of Christians, this means knowing that God has a special plan for your life.”
John 4:15-18 KJV
[15] The woman saith unto him, Sir, give me this water, that I thirst not, neither come hither to draw. [16] Jesus saith unto her, Go, call thy husband, and come hither. [17] The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Jesus said unto her, Thou hast well said, I have no husband: [18] For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly.